3 Building castles in the sky | Reality

Episode 4 September 13, 2026 00:12:10
3 Building castles in the sky | Reality
Doing the Work
3 Building castles in the sky | Reality

Sep 13 2026 | 00:12:10

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Jill and Scott revisit their difficult ski trip and share what they discovered beneath the surface of what seemed to be a simple disconnect between them. Jill describes recognizing how deeply her old wound around emotional unavailability was affecting her, while Scott explores his own pattern of retreating inward when he feels abandoned—and how they learned to recognize these patterns and find their way back to connection.

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