Jill shares how a lifelong story about being overlooked as a woman was triggered during an early ski trip with Scott, causing her to feel once again that something was fundamentally wrong with her. Scott tells the same story from his perspective, revealing how his own inner reaction and tendency to withdraw unintentionally activated Jill’s old wound—and how both of them were caught in their own stories without seeing what was really happening.
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Jill shares how looking closely at her recurring experiences of being seen—and not being seen—helped her uncover a deep inner split rooted in childhood....
Jill shares her lifelong pendulum between feeling she didn’t deserve much and spending too freely to prove her worth, and how learning to trust...
Jill shares how the devastating death of her young niece, Sarah, broke through a numbness she had lived with for years and ultimately opened...