9 Come out, come out, wherever you are | Hiding

Episode 10 September 13, 2026 00:08:23
9 Come out, come out, wherever you are | Hiding
Doing the Work
9 Come out, come out, wherever you are | Hiding

Sep 13 2026 | 00:08:23

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Jill explores the paradox of wanting deeply to be seen while also hiding behind a mask, even discovering an almost literal version of this in her lifelong relationship with mascara. Scott shares how a moment of shame at work exposed his unconscious need to appear completely competent, and how learning to recognize when he needed help became an important part of his inner work.

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